As people, we’re unique by default. There’s good we can accomplish by learning how to shine through the weaknesses and strengths we carry throughout our lives. It’s easy to walk the path of least resistance because of conformity. We conform to ideals of how we must act to be loved by others and respected. It’s complicated to escape the ideologies we’ve consumed throughout our history. Since inevitable change must come to action.

Change is difficult and frightening because you’re confronted with harsh truths. Truths reveal your lack of success, self-governance, personal freedom, faith, hope, self-love, dreams, etc. We live in a bubble of comfort and chase other people’s dreams since we strive to be like other men or women. May it be through their careers, nice houses, fancy cars, large amounts of money, jewelry accessories, looks, education, opportunities, etc.

Social media is unhealthy when you look at others who’re “successful” in life while comparing yourself to them. You begin to lose sight of what life is meant to be. You also lose sight of your dreams and vision when you’re consumed with doubt and fear because of how others view you.

The hourglass of our lives is finite. The time spent dwelling on unhealed wounds won’t lengthen our time on Earth. It would shorten it much quicker because of fear, worry, doubt, and bad past experiences.

When we see the uniqueness of who we are by definition of our own standards, we learn to embrace our fears head-on. To be spontaneous by being the best versions of ourselves.

I believe in you as a person. Your existence in this current reality illustrates how important you are. You have to promise to take good care of yourself and to believe in your power. The power of who can make a difference in the lives of others.